Odedeyi Emmanuel

Monica Lewinsky! Does that name ring a bell? Of course, you guessed right. She was former President Bill Clinton’s secret lover that almost cost him his presidential seat. But that’s all history.

Opening my e-mail this morning I saw a report on Yahoo! News about the current serving South Carolina Governor in US confessing about his 8-year-long unfaithfulness to his wife by seeing a lady in far away Argentina.
This governor is the head of the Republican Governors Association and has been mentioned in recent months as a possible presidential candidate in 2012. But ironically, this man as a congressman had voted in favor of three of four articles of impeachment against President Bill Clinton, citing the need for "moral legitimacy."

As if this was not enough, this Governor had always left the country without formally delegating his authority and by leaving the country without formally transferring power, critics said he neglected his gubernatorial authority and put the state at risk because It wasn't clear how his staff could reach him in an emergency. How ridiculous to know that Governor Sanford has four boys for his wife, Jenny Sanford who is literally his financier having come from an influential family herself! She has reportedly thrown him out two weeks ago.

My heart sighs as I write this because I had a totally different thing to talk about before now. But the recurring nature of this high profile unfaithfulness to spouse and family calls for caution among us as moral beings.

It does not matter how much we hide, our secret sins we find us out. To involve ourselves in secret unfaithfulness and publicly pretend as if nothing has happened is the height of promiscuity. Jesus says in the above scripture that the day is coming when those secret whispers will be repeated all over town.
Do you know the word ‘integrity’ is from the word to integrate? Integrity literarily means making private same as public.

Is your private life same as public life? Am I just a preacher and not a doer? Is there a part of me that is others must not know about? These are the rhetorical questions that you and I should provide answers to and make amends where necessary because sin actually sinks us.

Only a few months ago we heard about a purported claim by UK Home Secretary Jacqui Smith, that she mistakenly bought two pornographic films while paying for internet connection online. These ‘mistakenly’ purchased adult films, which shamefully cost £5 each, were reportedly viewed on 6 and 8 April 2008, although she claimed not to be at home then. She was made a Member of the Privy Council in 2003. Smith is also the third woman to hold one of the Great Offices of State — after Margaret Thatcher (Prime Minister) and Margaret Beckett (Foreign Secretary).
Whether true or false, only God knows. But the point is that whether high or low, poor or rich, old or young. God doesn’t bend his rules. It applies to all.
Do you know it was the supposed private sins of Adam that still plagues the human race till date?

That is why the scripture says;
But the firm foundation laid by God stands, sure and unshaken, bearing this seal (inscription): The Lord knows those who are His, and, Let everyone who names [himself by] the name of the Lord give up all iniquity and stand aloof from it. 2 Timothy 2: 19

What to do;
- Never hide your sin.
He that covers his sins shall not prosper but God is always faithful to forgive us when we sincerely confess them. Proverbs 28:13.. Admit it and confess it to the Lord. How foolish! Covering our sins is like hiding behind a single finger.

-Never go back to your vomit.
Sin is generally pleasurable but its sweetness is only going to be for a while because the shame it brings outweighs its pleasures. Moses chose to share the oppression of God’s people instead of enjoying the fleeting pleasures of sin for a moment. Hebrews 11: 25

- Be more sensitive.
Most sins come as a mere thought first. But when these thoughts are entertained they find a place and if not quickly discarded, action follows. We are told in Proverbs 4: 23 “Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do” Watch and pray!